Parenting Plans

What Is a Parenting Plan?

Separation can be a difficult time, especially when children are involved. A well-thought-out parenting plan can help create stability and reduce conflict, making life easier for everyone.

A Parenting Plan is a written agreement between parents outlining how they will share parenting responsibilities. It typically covers:

• Daily care and living arrangements

• Handover locations and times

• Special occasions (birthdays, holidays, celebrations)

• School, after-school, and holiday schedules

• Participation in activities and time with extended family

• Health and medical needs

• Financial contributions beyond child support

• Communication and dispute resolution strategies

 

Who Creates the Plan?

Usually, both parents work together to create a Parenting Plan, though other important figures—like grandparents or step-parents—can also be involved.

While not legally binding, a Parenting Plan can later be converted into a Consent Order, making it enforceable by the courts.

 

Is It Flexible?

Yes. Parenting Plans are meant to evolve as your child’s needs change. If both parents agree, the plan can be updated at any time. When challenges arise, we provide support to help resolve issues calmly, keeping your child’s well-being at the centre.

Working together on a Parenting Plan helps lay the groundwork for cooperative, long-term co-parenting that supports your child’s growth and happiness.​

The best interests of the children

Under the Family Law Act 1975, the primary focus of any parenting plan is the best interest of the children. This means that every decision should support their emotional, physical, and developmental needs. The law encourages parents to reach agreements themselves rather than relying on the court system, fostering a collaborative and harmonious co-parenting relationship.

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The Act also emphasises that:

• Parents should take responsibility for resolving issues about their children.

• Using the court system should be the last option, and only if necessary.

• Reducing conflict is key to ensuring a healthier environment for the children, both now and into the future.

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Does it have to be in writing?

To be recognised under the Family Law Act 1975, the plan must be written, voluntary, created without pressure or coercion, and signed and dated by both parents.

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Some parents choose to create interim parenting plans that can provide a temporary solution as they navigate the separation process. Once other matters are settled, a more permanent arrangement can be agreed upon.

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By creating a thoughtful parenting plan, parents can focus on ensuring the best outcomes for their children during this time of transition and into the future.

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So why FDR?

At the heart of this process is Family Dispute Resolution (FDR), where a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP) works closely with parent to create a plan that meets their child's unique needs.  This child-focused approach ensures that parenting decisions are made with the best interests of the children as the top priority.  It helps parents navigate the complex issues that come with co-parenting, fostering collaboration rather than conflict.

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At Empowered Resolutions, our focus is on fostering open communication, reducing stress, and finding practical solutions that work for everyone involved.​

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